I have been fortunate to have the income to own some pretty nice European/Swedish cars, over the last 20 yrs.
IMO, the biggest PITA about oil changes is the time it takes to get one. So, if you can lessen the frequency, you lessen the hassle. I reccomend synthetic - Castrol Syntec, Mobile 1, or Amzoil. With normal driving, change it in the autum and spring. I have never had a engine or turbo problem using synthetics.
Naturally, if one tows a heavy load, or very dusty driving, maybe it should be 3 times a year.