The odd feature mix on the Corolla (roll-up windows? Really???) is not the fault of the engineering team, but rather Toyota product management. They somehow feel that a signficant portion of their customers either don't want, or can't afford power windows. But like you said, on a nearly-$19k car, it ought to have them as a standard feature.
I agree with all your points -- especially the suspension settings. Corollas I've driven in the past have been perfectly functional, but do not excite me. It's part of why I like Hondas better -- they're sportier than Toyotas or Hyundai. Hondas often come with better suspensions, too -- double wishbones instead of plain MacPherson strut & control arm.
Chip H.